Sophie Cachia just added a crucial point to the way we view anxiety and mental health conditions.
Speaking with Show And Tell Online, the creator of successful blog The Young Mummy spoke about what it was like when anxiety first got a grip on her life.
“There was no trigger point in my life that I went, ‘That’s it’,” she explained.
“When I started to see psychologists, they’d say, ‘Have you suffered any trauma?’ And I’m sitting there going, ‘No, I’ve just got engaged, I’ve got a beautiful healthy baby, and I’ve got a wonderful family’,” she explained.
“You start to think, ‘What the hell is wrong with me? Why am I feeling like this?'”
When speaking about mental health conditions, we often assume there’s a definite reason behind it all. The clear beginning of a new chapter. A defined line: ‘before’ and ‘after’. Something like a death in the family. Infertility issues. Unemployment. Relationship problems.
While this is certainly the case for some people, it’s not the case for everyone. Which is partly why mental health conditions are so difficult for many to process and understand. Someone with anxiety who doesn’t seem to harbour any of life’s standard red flags should surely just be able to “suck it up”, right?
Sophie’s experience proves just how wrong this attitude is. (Post continues after gallery.)
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Her life was seemingly perfect. Nothing was lacking. And yet, she was confronted with anxiety. It consumed her.
Sophie questioned how she could be feeling this way when life was so good, but that’s the thing. Anxiety, depression, the whole spectrum of mental health conditions – they don’t discriminate.
Top Comments
This is such a great reflection of many people's experience with anxiety, including mine, thanks Sophie.
I started seeing a psychologist last year for anxiety that hit me out of the blue and I couldn't understand. Whilst CBT helped slightly, it didn't improve dramatically because I really couldn't grasp what it was I needed to work through.
I was seeing the same psychologist when a very traumatic event happened in my family, and I found counselling treatment for this, whilst difficult, far more effective.
I had to make the decision recently to try medication as my anxiety was impacting my work, and this has finally helped me along after 18 months. I'll also add for anyone who thinks that medication is the "easy way out", the first few months on meds is certainly not a walk in the park.
Good luck to anyone managing their anxiety.